Today's Encouragement

Fat Horses and Godly Friends

Cara Whitney

“Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted.” Galatians 6:1 (NIV)

About six months ago, I had to face what I knew to be true: My horses were “too fat.”


I knew this, and I cared, but I still wasn’t willing to do anything to remedy the problem.

But after my brave veterinarian became involved and told me the truth about what I already knew, it was time for change, and we implemented a diet plan for them.

Why my “brave” veterinarian? Because he later told a friend of mine he had previously been escorted off other farms for uttering the “fat” truth to other horse owners. My veterinarian’s care and concern for my horse’s well-being overrode the risk of offending me (and possibly losing me as a client). He did the right thing by telling me I was wrong.

Obesity in horses brings on painful health problems and eventually, death. His loving honesty was motivation enough for me to face what I knew was wrong and make a positive change in the way I was feeding my equine friends. I am now a better horse owner because of it.

It’s with the same care and loving concern that we who know Christ should confront sin in our own lives and in the lives of our close friends. If the choice is between being afraid to offend or doing what’s loving (even though it’s sometimes hard), our best choice is to love our friends the way Jesus tells us. That means seeking the best for a person while asking nothing in return, loving them no matter what it may cost.

In John 13:34-35, Jesus puts it this way, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” (NIV).

I’ll be honest here when I tell you, there have been times in my life when my sin is staring back at me in the mirror, like a pasture full of chubby horses. I know I need to get my heart right, and although God is standing by to change it, I choose not to talk to Him about it. Because you know what? I am right! And I am justified to have these feelings!

Not really. The truth is, I am often wrong. My attitude stinks, and I need a good Christian friend to call me on it.

Today’s key verse, Galatians 6:1, makes this clear: “Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted.”

As a Christ-follower, having godly friends to help us steer away from sin is crucial. True Christian friends view each other’s holiness as important. We should welcome a friend in the faith who is willing to gently reveal when we need an attitude adjustment and a spiritual sharpening.

In return, let’s be loving enough to do the same for our friends. There is something uniquely special about a Christian friendship. It’s a soul-to-soul connection that lasts for eternity.